Hello lovelies!

Today Bryan and I are celebrating our 2 year anniversary. It is so true when people say time flies! We got married on 05-10-15 and we love our date. I wanted to find a venue that resembled the Twilight wedding lol. We both wanted to get married in the woods and so I searched online and found this place called Nestldown in Los Gatos, CA. I was unsure about the location because it is nearly a 3 hour drive from where we live, but once we visited the spot, we just had to get married there. It is completely magical!

2 years has gone by 2 fast. I absolutely LOVE being married to my best friend. It is so much fun doing life with the one you love. We have had so many adventures from traveling around the world to having a baby together. We have had our shares of ups and downs, but at the end of the day, we have become more stronger with each day that passes. Marriage is a journey and it’s not always easy. I had always envisioned that marriage is like the movies, all rainbows and butterflies. I quickly came to realize it’s not like that haha. I’m not trying to say marriage isn’t wonderful, it is! But, it is also work. You have to put in your full effort if you want a lasting relationship.

Communication is key in a relationship. No one is a mind reader. I’m the type of person where I am upset and think in my head, “Wow, I can’t believe he did that”, or “I wish he would just do this”. Bryan always tells me, “I’’m not a mind reader, Naomi. You need to tell me how you are feeling”. And I fee like, as girls, we just want our boyfriend or husband to make us happy and we think they know how to do it. Lets be honest, they don’t always know how haha sometimes we need to tell them what we want.

Also, we did get married when we just had turned 21, so we were both young. I also did get pregnant 4 months into our marriage and it even though it was planned, we had to grow up quickly. When we had our girl, Zara, it had changed our lives so much. Seeing Bryan hold our baby girl for the first time, it made me fall in love with him more than I could even possibly know. Having a kid definitely tests your patience with one another, but it also strengthens your relationship.

I have only been married for 2 years, but I feel like I have learned and grown so much. I’m so glad I have found the one that I get to spend the rest of my life with and build a family with. Thank you so much for reading and if you ever have questions or just need someone to talk to, feel free to email me. :) Well, here’s to 2 years and many more! Have a great day lovelies!